Mindfulness for Kids: What It Helps With and What It Doesn't
A 2019 review pooled 33 mindfulness trials in children and teens. Against another active activity, the benefits were only for mindfulness itself, depression, and anxiety or stress. A 2022 UK trial found ten school lessons no better than usual lessons after a year. Strong or lasting worry is a reason to talk with your child's doctor or a mental-health professional.
TL;DR
- A 2019 review pooled 33 randomized trials of mindfulness programs for children and teens (Dunning and colleagues, 2019). In the 17 trials that compared mindfulness with another active activity, the benefits were only for mindfulness itself, depression, and anxiety or stress. Attention and other thinking skills were not among them.
- A large UK trial gave ten mindfulness lessons in 84 secondary schools (Kuyken and colleagues, 2022). More than 8,000 students aged 11 to 14 took part. After a year, the lessons did no better than the schools' usual lessons on feelings and getting along. No harm from the lessons was seen.
- Deep breathing appears as a calm-down strategy in a US government brief on helping children calm down. We read no trial of breathing exercises on their own. So we present deep breathing as a calming strategy experts suggest, not as something tested on its own.
- In our view, mindfulness lessons do not take the place of care for an anxiety disorder. Strong or lasting worry is a reason to talk with your child's doctor or a mental-health professional.
Mindfulness, in our plain description, is paying attention to the present moment on purpose.
”MindfulnessWhat a large review found
A 2019 review pooled 33 randomized trials of mindfulness programs for children and teens (Dunning and colleagues, 2019). In all, 3,666 children and teens took part.
Compared with all kinds of comparison groups, the programs showed small benefits on several outcomes. Not all of those groups did another activity. To us, the harder test is against another activity. In the 17 trials that compared mindfulness with another active activity, the benefits were only for mindfulness itself, depression, and anxiety or stress. Attention and other thinking skills were not among them.
More work is needed "particularly in younger children," the authors say.
Nothing in these studies tests Learning Success.
What a large school trial found
A large UK trial gave ten mindfulness lessons in 84 secondary schools (Kuyken and colleagues, 2022). More than 8,000 students aged 11 to 14 took part. After a year, the lessons did no better than the schools' usual lessons on feelings and getting along. No harm from the lessons was seen.
This trial gave the lessons to whole classes in school. It did not test mindfulness at home.
So, does it help kids focus?
In our view, the studies here do not show that it does. In the harder test, attention was not one of the gains. Two of the three gains were about feelings, not focus. And less is known about younger children.
That does not make a quiet minute a bad idea. We just would not promise it will fix focus.
Where breathing fits
Deep breathing appears as a calm-down strategy in a US government brief on helping children calm down. We read no trial of breathing exercises on their own. So we present deep breathing as a calming strategy experts suggest, not as something tested on its own.
If you want to try it at home
Here are steps we suggest. They are our own ideas, not from a study.
- Try it at a calm time, not in the middle of a meltdown.
- Keep it short. One minute is plenty.
- Do it with your child. Take three slow breaths together.
- Play one noticing game. Each of you names three sounds you can hear.
- Keep it light. If your child does not want to, let it go.
If your child gets upset, stop. Come back when they are calm.
When worry is strong or lasting
In our view, mindfulness lessons do not take the place of care for an anxiety disorder. Strong or lasting worry is a reason to talk with your child's doctor or a mental-health professional.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) is a US government health agency. The CDC describes when a child may be diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. One case is so many fears and worries that they "interfere with school, home, or play activities." It points to your child's doctor or a mental-health specialist for an evaluation. We cannot tell you whether your child has an anxiety disorder.
When to ask for help
Each of these is a reason to ask for help on its own.
- Little change, even with steady practice and good teaching.
- Schoolwork well below what school expects.
- A teacher who raises a concern about learning.
- Extreme upset about schoolwork.
- Complete avoidance of school or learning.
- Hopelessness about learning.
- Sadness or worry that lasts.
- Significant delays in speech, language or motor development.
- A skill that was there and has gone. Our position is that a lost skill goes to a doctor first, not a tutor.
If no skill has gone, start with the teacher. Say what you are seeing at home, and what you have tried. Beyond the teacher, the right person depends on what it turns out to be about. If the work is too hard, someone who works on that school skill. If worry or mood is the thing, someone who works with children's mental health. In our view, delays in speech, language or movement are worth raising with your child's doctor. In our view, if you are worried enough to ask, a professional evaluation is worth asking about.
Any talk of hurting themselves is a same-day call to your doctor or a crisis line.
Key Takeaways
Dunning and colleagues (2019) reviewed trials of mindfulness programs for children and teens. In the 17 trials that compared mindfulness with another active activity, the benefits were only for mindfulness itself, depression, and anxiety or stress. Attention and other thinking skills were not among them.
Kuyken and colleagues (2022) tested ten mindfulness lessons in UK secondary schools. After a year, the lessons did no better than the schools' usual lessons on feelings and getting along. No harm from the lessons was seen.
In our view, mindfulness lessons do not take the place of care for an anxiety disorder. Strong or lasting worry is a reason to talk with your child's doctor or a mental-health professional.
Tonight, at a calm time, take three slow breaths with your child. Keep it light. Stop if they do not want to. This is our idea, not a tested step.
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Common questions from parents
Does mindfulness help kids focus?
A 2019 review pooled 33 randomized trials of mindfulness programs for children and teens (Dunning and colleagues, 2019). In the 17 trials that compared mindfulness with another active activity, the benefits were only for mindfulness itself, depression, and anxiety or stress. Attention and other thinking skills were not among them. In our view, these studies do not show that mindfulness helps children focus.
Can mindfulness help my child's anxiety?
In our view, mindfulness lessons do not take the place of care for an anxiety disorder. We cannot tell you whether your child has one. Strong or lasting worry is a reason to talk with your child's doctor or a mental-health professional. Any talk of hurting themselves is a same-day call to your doctor or a crisis line.
Is mindfulness safe for children?
A large UK trial gave ten mindfulness lessons in 84 secondary schools (Kuyken and colleagues, 2022). More than 8,000 students aged 11 to 14 took part. No harm from the lessons was seen. That trial was in school. It did not test mindfulness at home. If your child gets upset, stop. Come back when they are calm.
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